Introducing the first episode of Straight Talk, Honest Advice, with host Channa Borman. In our first episode, Finding Independence Following a Hard Divorce, Channa is joined by guest Spring Basey. Spring discusses topics such as financial fears relating to taking care of a family that come along with the unknown of divorce. Spring enlightens the audience with insightful tips on her journey after divorce and finding herself. She shares what came after the divorce, changes she did not expect, and how she learned to deal with these changes. You will want to experience this conversation as these two share some powerful advice and life lessons.
Below is a summary of topics discussed in the episode.
Episode 1: Finding Independence Following a Hard Divorce
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The fear of the unknown
When starting the process of deciding and then going through the first stages of divorce, there is a lot of fear of the unknown. These fears include;
- Navigating children, especially young children
- Figuring out your finances, being able to provide enough income to support your family
- Finding a solid support system.
- Realizing who your friends are and acknowledging the possibility of losing some friendships.
- Utilizing your options, including support programs
- Perusing child support
Fearing the unknown does not mean you should not file for divorce. Also, staying for your children should not be a reason. Children pick up on body language and words. Remember, we are our children’s most prominent teachers.
Learning who you are after your divorce
It’s essential to take the time to discover who you are after your divorce. What makes you happy? What do you enjoy? Deciding what you want to do during your free time? Who do you wish to spend time with? Finding who your true self is is so important.
“Being one with myself is very empowering. Knowing I can stand on my own two feet without someone there as a crutch is very, very empowering.” – Spring Basey
Finding the right divorce attorney for you.
Finding the right divorce attorney and feeling like you have someone on your side is essential. When you are looking for an attorney, think about the following;
- Who is going to fight for you and your children in a practical way and honest way
- Look for an attorney that makes you feel like you are part of a team
- You want to feel represented
- An attorney that provides you with excellent and open communication
- Your attorney lays out a clear plan and path for you
Episode 1: Finding Independence Following a Hard Divorce
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About Channa Borman
Channa Borman is a family law attorney who provides straight talk and honest advice on divorce and other family law issues. In this podcast, she discusses various legal topics and offers practical, timely tips for people dealing with these difficult situations. Guests will include clients Channa has advised, and they will share their experiences with divorce. Topics will consist of unexpected hardships, co-parenting, and long-term life changes resulting from this decision. Channa will also be joined by colleagues such as divorce counselors, moderators, other family law attorneys, and subject matter experts.
Channa Borman is the CEO/Founding Attorney of C.E. Borman & Associates and has been practicing law for over 20 years. She has received many awards, including the “Top 100” Trial Lawyer in America by the Association of American Trial Lawyers.
She is also very involved with the Brazos community by teaching in the Blinn College Paralegal Studies Department, has served as the coordinator and volunteer attorney for the Brazos Interfaith Immigration Network’s immigrant community outreach project, has volunteered with the Girl Scouts of Central Texas, and has participated in many other community outreach programs.
With her expertise in the legal field and the first-hand experiences of the guests, this podcast will be great to tune into for anyone interested in family matters.
If you’re in a similar phase in your life or you have questions, please reach out to us at straight.talk.honestadvice@gmail.com
